Humainquivolepas

In the creation of supercrip stories, nondisabled people don’t celebrate any particular achievement, however extraordinary or mundane. Rather, these stories rely on the perception that disability and achievement contradict each other and that any disabled person who overcomes this contradiction is heroic.

To believe that achievement contradicts disability is to pair helplessness with disability, a pairing for which crips pay an awful price. The nondisabled world locks us away in nursing homes. It deprives us the resources to live independently. It physically and sexually abuses us in astoundingly high numbers. It refuses to give us jobs even when a workplace is accessible, the speech impediment, the limp, the ventilator, the seeing-eye dog are read as signs of inability. The price is incredibly high.

Eli Clare. “The Mountain”. Exile and Pride: Disability, Queerness, and Liberation. 1st.South End Press, 1999. pp. 8.  (via nekobakaz)
(Trigger Warning: mention of abuse and domestic violence)Did you know this happens all the time?

theinebriatedfangirl:

missgingerlee:

TRIGGER WARNING-Domestic Violence Situations


My name is not Jane. I need to keep my real name secret because the man who abused me can’t know where I am — I fear for my safety. But when I was leaving him and needed to get him off the cell phone contract we shared, Sprint put my safety at risk.

The man who abused me is the father of my son. When our baby was just four months old, he watched as his father strangled me and threatened to stomp on my head with steel-toed boots. I left and got a restraining order the next day. 

But at a time when I had no job, no steady place to live, and feared for my life and the life of my little one, Sprint refused to let me get my abuser off my cell phone contract unless I paid them $200 — even though the contract was in my name. I had no money, and the man who threatened to kill me could track exactly who I was calling and when.

I was inspired when I saw that another woman started a petition on Change.org asking Verizon to end contract cancellation fees for victims of domestic violence — and she won. So I started my own petition asking Sprint to do the same. Click here to add your name.

When I signed the petition asking Verizon to drop cancellation fees for victims of domestic violence, I was shocked how many other people who signed shared awful stories about Sprint. One woman wrote about how Sprint made her meet her abusive ex-boyfriend in person at the Sprint store before they’d let her cancel her contract.

As for me, I’m still so afraid of my abuser that I can’t even use my real name. But this issue is so important for women like me fighting for their lives, I knew I had to do something.

Cindy’s petition to Verizon made me realize that I am not alone. If she can get Verizon to change its policies to prioritize the safety of victims of domestic violence, there’s no reason Sprint can’t do the same. I know that if enough people sign my petition, Sprint will do the right thing, too.

Click here to sign my petition demanding that Sprint follow in Verizon’s footsteps and end cancellation fees for victims of domestic violence.

Thank you,

Jane Doe
USA

I’d like to throw a bit more info on here, because Sprint does some really shitty things to people dealing with domestic violence & stalking.

When I needed information from my own account 2 years ago for a court case, I went to 14 different ‘official’ Sprint stores trying to get said account information, because I couldn’t get it online, & their 1-800 number told me I had to go to an actual Sprint store, not just an authorized retailer. Sometimes those ‘real’ Sprint stores are few and far between…

I did what I was told & went to the store, & literally begged them to please let me have my account information, & showed them a protective order that stated in plain language that there was a ‘situation’ & my phone/text records were a very important part of that case. I stood there in tears in the last store I went to, & said flat out that if they didn’t allow me to have access to my own flippin’ account information, & my cause got thrown out, they’d just helped somebody eventually murder me.

Did I then cause a scene? Yes I did. Did I tell every woman in that store very, very loudly what they were refusing to do for me? Yep. Did I get every employee name & number on duty that day & file a complaint against every single one? Fuck yes I did.

They don’t care. They don’t care if you are in danger & will not help you, even when you have legal grounds that give you access to your own information. 

The lesson? They don’t give a shit about people dealing with domestic violence or stalking, & it doesn’t matter to them whether you are in danger or not. You’re left out there on your own, & the only one that will ever help you is yourself. This is a daily thing for victims/survivors all over this country. 

So please, please don’t ever tell me I get ‘hysterical’ or ‘paranoid’ when it comes to stalking or domestic issues. I had to change everything in my life to try to stay safe, & I had to claw & fight through even ‘simple’ things in an attempt to get safe. I’m not hysterical, I’m somebody that’s had to learn how ‘on your own’ you can end up in your attempt to stay alive.

/gingerrant

holy shit. signal boost, y’all!

Signal Boost I suppose !

duyukdv:

Mostly on the ’80s boom in for-profit facilities.

I’m not going to add any specific content warnings, because I figure that if you’ve been there, you have a pretty good idea what triggering stuff might get discussed here.

I didn’t entirely read every words, but this is important stuff about institutionalization, forced institutionalization and how all of that is not a thing of the past.

Why all this autism research is so much crap.

karalianne:

(This will probably be tangential, but I promise it will all tie together at the end. I just ranted at my husband about it for a good ten minutes and thought I’d try to write it down.)

There is currently a cure for autism that has been approved for trials by the FDA in the US. Cord blood will be administered to 30 autistic toddlers. There are a bunch of reasons why this probably won’t work, and you can read about that over here. (Link courtesy of sherlocksflataffect.)

Current autism research is looking at cure and cause. It should be looking at support - ways to help autistic people live the lives they want to live, the way they want to live them. You know, like how a lot of non-autistic people do.

Here’s the thing: researching cure and cause is going to result in eugenics.

Researching cure and cause is going to result in eugenics.

Researching cure and cause is going to result in eugenics.

We’ve seen it happen before; it is happening now.

From Wikipedia:

A 2002 literature review of elective abortion rates found that 91–93% of pregnancies in the United Kingdom and Europe with a diagnosis of Down syndrome were terminated.[73] Data from theNational Down Syndrome Cytogenetic Register in the United Kingdom indicates that from 1989 to 2006 the proportion of women choosing to terminate a pregnancy following prenatal diagnosis of Down syndrome has remained constant at around 92%.[74][75]

In the United States a number of studies have examined the abortion rate of fetuses with Down syndrome. Three studies estimated the termination rates at 95%, 98%, and 87% respectively.[73]

This is eugenics, people.

Eugenics is the attempt to make the human race better by eliminating undesirable elements of the population. Apparently people who have Down syndrome are undesirable. We already know that autistic people are undesirable; why on earth would you think that this is not the direction we are heading?

In the 1920’s in Canada, eugenics was applied to people who had disabilities. They were sterilized against their will. The thought process was that people who had mental illness or developmental disabilities would give birth to more people who had mental illnesses or developmental disabilities, so they should be stopped from reproducing. This was done until the 1970’s.

To be clear: as recently as 40 years ago, Canadians sterilized people who had disabilities against their will, in order to keep them from producing more people who had disabilities.

This is recent history. This didn’t happen hundreds of years ago.

But humanity has a really selective memory.

I was shocked and appalled to learn, last year, that Canada had operating residential schools (you know, the ones that First Nations children were sent to against their parents’ wishes, so they could be forced to fit into white people’s society) as recently as the 1980’s. 

Thanks to how poorly our history is taught, I had thought that residential schools were all done away with something like 100 years ago. But no, when I was in public elementary school, there were children being abused and denied their cultural heritage, taken away from their families by force. In my country. EDIT: The last one was closed in 1996. So I was halfway through university.

This is selective memory, people. This is trying to pretend that this sort of thing doesn’t happen anymore, that it was all really long ago.

It happens now. It is real.

And that is why you should care about this research for cures and cause. This is why you should reject it. This is why you should advocate for a focus on appropriate and wanted supports.

I’m turning 36 in a little over a week, and sometime in the next little while my husband and I are going to start trying to get pregnant. If my amniocentesis comes back positive for trisomy 21, I will be pressured (in not so many words) to have an abortion. I won’t do it, of course. But the fact that this happens is a sign that eugenics is just a part of our lives. Eugenics is ableism (and racism, and probably a whole bunch of other -isms) in its purest form.

Please, don’t support eugenics. Don’t support the eradication of diversity from the human race.

(Told you it would all tie in together. I should go to bed now, but I’ll stay up for a little while longer.)

Very important, please read this !!!!!

Fight against eugenics

do it for my people and all those who are considered as undesirable

WARNING: TUMBLR USER STARKHOLME-SYNDROME WILL OUT YOU

onedramaticetc:

dandeleijons:

TW: TRANSPHOBIA, APOLOGISM, RACISM, OUTING

starkholme-syndrome, or known to several of my friends as cas, is a racist trans*-hate apologist who is planning onoutingmy close friend who is transgender to their mom.

he is unapologetic about his actions, and before has said and done some incredibly racist things- when I called him out on it, I was sent incredibly triggering messages by his friend which he laughed off.

he has claimed that my friends and I, many of whom are transgender, have turned being trans* into a “fad” and have on many occasions invalidated our identities.

i could stand it until today. now he has forced my close friend to tell their parents about their gender identity or risk having him do it for them.

this is not fair. this is terrifying.

DO NOT BECOME FRIENDS WITH STARKHOLME-SYNDROME.

please. for your own safety and the safety of the people around you- he is ruthless. he does not listen to reasoning or begging. i do not want him to ruin any more lives.

sighs a lot.

yeah signal boost this please.

he is a really nasty person, and you really don’t want to associate with him holy shit.

OK Signal Boost

I just put a link to the post to avoid triggering people who are not prepared with the violent image

http://sherlocksflataffect.tumblr.com/post/27661882310/employee-13-mahalkitax3-topraymen-a-14

I don’t know, It’s probably already too late, but in case it’s not…

the picture is of the scars and bruise of a young boy the text is:

A 14 years old boy got beaten half dead by his stepfather. His only fault was this that he tried to protect his little sister from being raped. Now he’s struggling for his life, but doctors say he won’t make it without a surgery. His mother doesn’t have money to pay it.tumblr donates 45cents for every sharing or reposing.

Please Verify, Don’t Ignore thinking It To be FAKE
(Mother’s Number Not Disclosed For Security Reasons)
Doctor’s Contact Number: +91 20 6721 3400
Hospital Name: Sahyadri Hospital

Please help.
Lke, share & spread the message..! Share if you care !

(p.s. I don’t agree with the person who menaced those who don’t reblog this, even if I know it’s not a real menace)

HUGE TRIGGER WARNING, MENTION OF RACISM, ABUSE, VIOLENCE, JAIL, MISOGINY AND A VERY UNFAIR SHITTY JUSTICE SYSTEM)
fuckyeahmarxismleninism:

Justice for Marissa March & Rally
Ms. Alexander, a mother of 3, who currently holds a Master’s Degree and had no prior criminal record; was attacked by her husband who has a known and documented history of domestic abuse on August 1, 2010. Alexander was arrested after she fired a warning shot into the wall after her husband threatened to kill her.Join us on May 29th, 2012 at Hemming Plaza in Jacksonville, FL. Starting at 8am as we march toward the new courthouse. Speakers, Musical tributes & much more.

Shit, I’m too late here too.

HUGE TRIGGER WARNING, MENTION OF RACISM, ABUSE, VIOLENCE, JAIL, MISOGINY AND A VERY UNFAIR SHITTY JUSTICE SYSTEM)

fuckyeahmarxismleninism:

Justice for Marissa March & Rally

Ms. Alexander, a mother of 3, who currently holds a Master’s Degree and had no prior criminal record; was attacked by her husband who has a known and documented history of domestic abuse on August 1, 2010. Alexander was arrested after she fired a warning shot into the wall after her husband threatened to kill her.

Join us on May 29th, 2012 at Hemming Plaza in Jacksonville, FL. Starting at 8am as we march toward the new courthouse. Speakers, Musical tributes & much more.

Shit, I’m too late here too.

(Trigger Warning! mention of abuse and torture against disabled people.

crown-of-weeds:

littlemissmutant:

JRC settled out of court no no no no

keep your jacket on, get tortured for hours.

electrocute minors, pay some money.

(I actually had assumed this was a criminal trial because holy FUCK no one can convince me that was not a crime)

I got sick when I saw that headline.

Why, fuck, no, you can’t do this.

Also, sorry, you forgot the part where tense up while you’re tied face-down, spread eagle, with electrodues to you, get tortured for hours. Because you’re being aggressive.

You might hurt someone.

(Trigger Warning! mention of abuse and torture against disabled people.

littlemissmutant:

JRC settled out of court no no no no

keep your jacket on, get tortured for hours.

electrocute minors, pay some money.

(I actually had assumed this was a criminal trial because holy FUCK no one can convince me that was not a crime)

WHAT????

[TW: murder/suicide/etc.] This is an actual quote

sherlocksflataffect:

ad-mirandam:

radfemscorpion:

[Image description: Background is 6 piece pie style color split with black and yellow alternating. Foreground is a picture of a blue mutant scorpion. Top text reads “[Trans people] expect we’ll be shocked to see statistics about them being killed ”. Bottom text reads “And don’t realize, some of us wish they would ALL be dead”. End description.]

This is an actual quote from Bev Jo. here is a link

http://wewillnot.wordpress.com/2010/11/30/wtf-is-with-the-intersex-comments/#comment-1020

I will not stop reblogging this.

For anyone unaware:

That’s revolting. Wanting a whole group of people wiped off the planet? Not ok. You lose ALL decent human being points for that shit.

WHAT ?